” overheard my mum talking to them. about my dad, about how they have minor quarrels. at that point of time, i finally got the answer to my question. that question which i always ask deep in my heart. “how do my mum tolerate my dad’s attitude and temper seriously?”
i couldn’t understand, i felt i can never understand, i thought it was some super thing which is not meant for me to understand. but it’s very simple, it’s just love.
we all know we’re not perfect. we all know each other is not perfect. but loving is making that decision to accept each other’s flaws, whatever it is. loving is making that decision to know each other well, being able to accept each other. my mum knows my dad well, of course. it’s not that they don’t quarrel, they do, like my mum said. it’s not that they don’t know each other flaws. it’s not that they think each other is perfect, it’s that they are able to accept each other’s flaw.
and how many ppl can actually do that? ”