“ Nothing can ruin a relationship faster than jealously. Jealousy creates anxiety, anger, loneliness, hate and fear. No one thinks clearly when they’re jealous.”Having a relationship with a jealous person is very tough. Jealousy makes the person unattractive, even repulsive.
No one wants a jealous mate and no one likes being jealous. So what causes jealousy?
“Jealousy is the largest factor in breaking up (relationships). Jealousy comes about because of the insecurity of the jealous person and the jealousy may or may not have foundation. This person is afraid of hidden communication lines and will do anything to try to uncover them.” — L. Ron Hubbard
When you are jealous, a line of communication is going on with your friend that is hidden from you. The mystery causes the pain. If you witnessed your friend communication line, so it was not hidden from you, you would not feel jealous.
Hidden communication lines or mysteries make you think of questions. “Will she find someone she likes better than me?” “Is she going to forsake me?” “Does she think I’m unattractive?”
When you are jealous, the mystery makes you assume the worst. “Maybe she’ll end up on much better terms with her and leave me.”
How do you deal with a jealous person? “